It’s relatively easy for a single 25-year-old to make a drastic career change. They have minimal personal responsibility, plenty of freedom, and only a few years in the corporate world. Their connection to their true self, the one that existed before corporate, is still close.
But at 35, life looks different. Marriage. Kids. Mortgage. Cars. By this point, you’ve built a career. You have 10 or more years of experience and qualify for jobs you only dreamed of a decade ago. You’re making decent money. You have the title, the 401(k), the performance reviews. And while all this was coming into place, you treated yourself. You started buying nicer things. The more you made, the more you spent.
You’ve built your entire lifestyle around the income that job provides. But something feels off. The work feels hollow. The meetings feel pointless. The path ahead looks like more of the same: slightly more pay, slightly less life. You find yourself wondering how you can possibly walk away. You’re in the corporate trap.
This is where most 35-year-olds stop. Not because they don’t want something better, but because they believe they’re too far down one path to start a new one. They start counting years to retirement, wishing away the prime of their life until some distant “someday.” But what if someday never comes?
This doesn’t have to be your reality. Just because you’ve wandered down the wrong road for 10 years doesn’t mean you’re condemned to keep walking it. You’re not too late. You’re just early in the realization that you want something different. And if you’re willing to act on that realization, the next chapter can be the best one yet.
Research from Harvard Business Review shows that the average age of successful startup founders is 45, not the 20-something myth perpetuated by Silicon Valley. Founders in their 40s are 2.1 times more likely to build a successful startup than those in their 20s.
Essential Tips for Starting a Small Business Later in Life (After 35)
If you’re looking to start a business later in life, you need to be very clear with yourself about what you want. Do you want more control over your schedule? More meaning in your work? More stability on your own terms? Maybe all of the above. Whatever your reasons, you need to understand the why behind them. With that in mind, here are five things you need to know before you take the leap:
1. Remember what’s at stake: You only live once, and you aren’t getting any younger
Studies suggest that the odds of us existing on the Earth could be as high as one in quadrillions. Life is an unbelievably rare and precious gift. Far too valuable to waste doing meaningless work you don’t enjoy just for a paycheck. There needs to be passion behind whatever business you decide to do. You need to find your calling and pursue it. Anything short of that is a compromise with your true self. If you aren’t excited to get up in the morning to do it, something is seriously wrong. We’ve been conditioned to think it’s OK to “slog through” your job, but it’s not!
2. You need to build a business that fits your lifestyle, not the other way around
If you are motivated to start your own business to have greater control over your schedule and spend more time with your family, you shouldn’t start a business that will require you to travel every week. You need to align very clearly on your needs and wants from a personal, family, and professional standpoint and then choose a business that fits YOU. Too many people get excited about a business idea and then reverse-engineer their life to fit it. That’s backwards. Start with the life you want, then find a business that supports it.
3. You must unlearn the employee mindset
The longer you’ve spent in the corporate world, the harder it is to overcome the employee mindset. The habits that helped you succeed in your job won’t necessarily help you as a business owner, and the mindset that allowed you to survive for years in that world won’t lead you to entrepreneurial success.
In corporate, you waited for permission, followed the rules, and stayed in your lane. Now you’re the one making the rules. That shift is uncomfortable for a lot of people. But if you’re still thinking like an employee, you’ll hesitate when you need to act. You’ll play small when you need to move boldly. Learning to think like an owner isn’t just a motivational slogan. It’s survival.
4. You will have to learn how to sell
This is where a lot of smart people stumble. They think if their idea is good enough, the clients will just come. That’s not how it works.
If you want to build a business, you need to sell. Maybe you were in corporate sales, which will make this easier. Or maybe you never had to sell before. Either way, there’s no business without sales, so you’re going to have to learn this skill and get comfortable in an area that’s uncomfortable for many.
That means getting clear on your value. It means understanding what your customers care about. It means communicating like a human being, not a brochure. You don’t need to become a hype machine. But you do need to get comfortable putting your offer in front of people and asking for the business.
5. You need to know your numbers
A business can only be sustainable if it’s financially viable, and financial viability takes time to build. You’re likely going to ramp up your business at an income level that eats into your savings.
It’s critical to understand your financial picture both today and in the future. You need to project your cash burn rate and how long your financial runway is. You need to know how much revenue your business needs to break even. You need to know how long your savings will last if it takes time to gain traction.
Signs You’re Ready to Make the Leap
If you’re still in a full-time corporate job and feeling the pull toward entrepreneurship, how do you know when you’re truly ready to make the leap? For more on building an exit from the corporate trap, check out my book, Liberation Day: Quit Your Job and Escape the Corporate Trap.
Let’s walk through four questions you can ask yourself to determine your true “all in” moment.
1. Does your business pass the Ikigai test?
The Japanese principle of Ikigai applied to business teaches us that success and fulfillment come when you find something you’re good at, that you can be paid for, that the world needs, and that you love. Without all four components, something will be missing, and that gap can lead to burnout or failure.
Before you quit, take stock of whether the business you’re considering fulfills each of these criteria. Be honest with yourself. A business idea that checks three boxes but misses one is a recipe for frustration down the road.
2. Do you have a financial runway?
Before making the leap, it’s critical to do comprehensive financial planning to understand the impact of quitting your job. You need to evaluate your savings against your living expenses to determine how long you can sustain yourself while building the business.
If your runway is too short, it can create unnecessary stress and anxiety, which will hurt your ability to perform. The goal isn’t to have unlimited savings. It’s to have enough breathing room to build without panic.
3. Is your job draining the energy you need to plan your exit?
If your full-time job is eating up so much time and mental energy that you can’t even think clearly about your next chapter, that’s a sign. When you’re too exhausted to research, plan, or take small steps toward your business idea, your corporate job isn’t just unfulfilling. It’s actively holding you back.
Pay attention to whether you have any capacity left at the end of the day. If your job leaves you with nothing, staying too long could keep you stuck indefinitely.
4. Are you mentally checked out?
When your heart is no longer in your job and your mind keeps drifting to what you could be building instead, it may be more than just burnout. It might be a sign you’re ready to move on.
If the work feels hollow and you’re just going through the motions, that’s worth listening to. Just make sure your decision is backed by a clear plan and realistic numbers, so you’re not simply trading one kind of stress for another.
A Corporate Liberation Success Story
Kelly Sherl started her own business after years in corporate marketing. She’d enjoyed great success and been promoted to Director at a brand-name global software company. But Kelly had come to realize what she truly wanted in life wasn’t offered by the corporate world. She came to Corporate Liberation, we did one-on-one coaching together, and she ultimately launched her coaching business, Redefining Busy.
In Kelly’s own words:
“Working with Evan and Corporate Liberation was the catalyst I needed to transition from an employee mindset to embracing my entrepreneurial journey. The weekly coaching sessions provided me not only with accountability to my business plan, but with the clarity and confidence to break free from the corporate world and step into my new role as a business owner. I felt guided through a comprehensive plan, from refining my business vision to creating actionable steps that ensured I was ready to launch successfully. Evan’s support and expertise helped me overcome the fear, overwhelm, and uncertainty that comes with such a major life change. Now I’m living my dream, running my own business, and feeling more aligned and fulfilled than ever. I highly recommend Evan and Corporate Liberation to anyone ready to take the leap into entrepreneurship!”
If you’d benefit from one-on-one consulting to build a transition plan tailored to your strengths, goals, and timeline, I’d love to chat with you.